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My Weather Check-In

Use weather metaphors to help toddlers name their internal feelings.

Activity details

2y–3y5 minslowindoorNo prep

Instructions

Get ready
  • Draw or find three simple weather pictures: a sun, a cloud, and a storm cloud with rain.
  • Introduce the idea: 'Weather happens inside us too. What is your weather right now?'
  1. Draw or find three simple weather pictures: a sun, a cloud, and a storm cloud with rain.
  2. Introduce the idea: 'Weather happens inside us too. What is your weather right now?'
  3. Model it first: 'My weather is sunny because I am happy to be with you.'
  4. Ask your child: 'Are you sunny, cloudy, or stormy right now?'
  5. Accept whatever they say without judgement: 'Stormy — thank you for telling me. What does stormy feel like?'
  6. If they are stormy, ask: 'What might help the storm pass? A cuddle? A snack? A rest?'
  7. Use the check-in at the same times each day until it becomes a natural part of routine.
  8. Celebrate honesty: 'I love that you told me you were cloudy — that helps me help you.'

Parent tip

Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.

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What success looks like

A few quiet minutes together without pressure. If your child relaxes even slightly, that’s self-regulation building.

Introduce the idea that feelings have weather. Sunny means happy. Cloudy means a bit off. Stormy means upset or overwhelmed. Make it a regular check-in — at breakfast, after a nap, before bed. The metaphor gives toddlers a way to express internal states that does not require the emotional vocabulary they are still building. Saying 'I am stormy' is much easier than 'I am tired and hungry and overwhelmed and I do not know what I need.'

Why it helps

Zero to Three states that 'by helping your child name her feelings and practise ways to manage their emotions, she learns over time how to do it herself.' The weather metaphor makes this naming accessible to toddlers: 'sunny' is easier to say than 'happy,' and 'stormy' is easier than 'overwhelmed.' The NHS reinforces this directly: 'You can help your toddler to understand their feelings by naming them,' identifying this as a core strategy for helping toddlers manage big emotions. A regular check-in builds the habit of expressing feelings before they escalate into whining.

Variations

  • Add a 'rainy' option for sadness and a 'windy' option for feeling silly or out of control.
  • Make a weather dial from card with a spinning arrow so your child can set their weather physically.
  • Do it as a family: everyone shares their weather at dinnertime.

Safety tips

  • Never correct their weather: 'You are not stormy, you are fine' invalidates the feeling and stops them sharing.
  • Keep it light — this is a check-in, not an interrogation. One question is enough.
  • If your child consistently reports 'stormy' over several days, consider whether something bigger is going on and speak to your health visitor.

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