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Friendly Figures Play Dough Faces

Mould play dough faces showing different emotions — happy, sad, angry, scared — and talk about when we feel each one.

Activity details

2y–4y15 minslowindoorPlay Dough

Instructions

Get ready
  • Set out play dough in two or three colours on a clean table or tray. Sit side by side with your child.
  • Roll a ball and flatten it into a face shape. Say: 'Let's make a happy face!' Press in two eyes and a smile.
  1. Set out play dough in two or three colours on a clean table or tray. Sit side by side with your child.
  2. Roll a ball and flatten it into a face shape. Say: 'Let's make a happy face!' Press in two eyes and a smile.
  3. Make a sad face next — turn the mouth down. Ask: 'When do you feel sad?' Listen to their answer without rushing.
  4. Now make an angry face — press eyebrows down and make the mouth a straight line. Say: 'Everyone feels angry sometimes. That's okay.'
  5. Make a scared face with wide eyes and an 'O' mouth. Ask: 'What makes you feel a bit scared?'
  6. Let your child make their own face and tell you what feeling it shows. Accept creative interpretations.
  7. Line up all the faces and 'introduce' them: 'This is Happy Holly, Sad Sam, Angry Alex, and Scared Sophie.'
  8. Squash them all back into balls together and say: 'Feelings come and go — just like play dough changes shape.'

Parent tip

Set out play dough before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

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What success looks like

A few quiet minutes together without pressure. If your child relaxes even slightly, that’s self-regulation building.

Toddlers are sensory learners, and working with play dough provides the perfect medium for exploring emotions in a hands-on way. In this activity, you and your child mould simple faces with different expressions, then name and discuss each emotion. The tactile engagement keeps small hands busy while the conversation deepens emotional vocabulary. Making a 'cross face' out of dough also externalises the feeling — it is something to look at and talk about rather than something overwhelming happening inside — which gives your child critical psychological distance from difficult emotions.

Why it helps

The EYFS framework places consistent routines and predictable transitions at the heart of supporting young children's emotional security and self-regulation. Emotional literacy — the ability to recognise, name, and express emotions — is a foundational skill that predicts social competence, academic success, and mental health outcomes. By giving emotions physical form through play dough, you engage the child's visual, tactile, and verbal processing simultaneously, creating stronger memory traces for each emotion label. The act of squashing the dough at the end teaches a powerful metaphor: feelings are temporary and changeable, not permanent states.

Variations

  • Use pipe cleaners for hair and button eyes to add fine-motor challenge and make the faces more detailed.
  • Act out mini scenarios with the dough faces: 'Angry Alex bumped his knee — what should Happy Holly say to help?'
  • For older toddlers, add nuanced emotions: surprised, confused, proud, embarrassed — building a richer emotional vocabulary.

Safety tips

  • Use commercially produced or home-made play dough that is non-toxic, as younger toddlers may taste it.
  • Supervise use of any small additions like pipe cleaners or buttons to prevent choking.
  • Wash hands before and after play, especially if your child has sensitive skin.

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