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Copy Cat, Silly Cat

Siblings take turns being the leader with silly actions — the other copies. No competition, just laughter.

Activity details

19m–4y10 minsmediumbothNo prep

Instructions

Get ready
  • Explain the game: 'One person does a silly thing, the other copies!'
  • Start as the leader yourself to demonstrate: do a funny walk
  1. Explain the game: 'One person does a silly thing, the other copies!'
  2. Start as the leader yourself to demonstrate: do a funny walk
  3. Let the children copy you, then pick one to be the new leader
  4. The leader does an action — funny face, animal noise, silly dance move
  5. The other sibling copies as closely as they can
  6. Swap after each round so everyone gets a turn leading
  7. If laughter takes over, let it — that's the whole point

Parent tip

Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.

Child smiling on a cushion after active play with a ball and scattered cushions nearby

What success looks like

Flushed cheeks, big smiles, and a calmer child afterwards. If they want to do it again, you’ve found a winner.

One sibling is the 'leader' and does a silly action — a funny walk, a weird face, an animal sound. The other sibling copies as closely as they can. Then they swap. There are no winners, no scoring, and no competition. The only goal is to make each other laugh. The turn-taking structure gives both children equal time in the spotlight, which reduces the rivalry that often sparks sibling conflict.

Why it helps

The EYFS framework identifies sharing and cooperative play as key social development milestones that children build through guided play experiences. Cooperative games without winners or losers reduce the competitive tension that triggers sibling conflict. Turn-taking in a fun context builds the social skill of waiting while also ensuring each child feels seen. Mirroring another person's actions activates empathy circuits in the brain, and shared laughter releases oxytocin — the bonding hormone — strengthening the sibling relationship.

Variations

  • Add a 'slow motion' round where everything is copied in slow motion.
  • Play 'opposite cat' — instead of copying, do the opposite of what the leader does.
  • Include parents and other family members for a bigger, sillier circle.

Safety tips

  • Clear the space of obstacles before starting — silly walks can lead to tumbles.
  • If one child is significantly younger, help them with their 'leader' turn by suggesting simple actions.
  • Step in gently if copying becomes mocking — redirect to sillier, more exaggerated actions.

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