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Where Is Thumbkin Fingerplay

Sing finger isolation songs like Where Is Thumbkin, wiggling each finger in turn to build fine motor control and early language.

Activity details

12m–2y5 minslowbothNo prep

Instructions

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Get ready
  • Sit facing your toddler so they can see your hands clearly.
  • Start with Where Is Thumbkin — tuck both fists behind your back.
  1. Sit facing your toddler so they can see your hands clearly.
  2. Start with Where Is Thumbkin — tuck both fists behind your back.
  3. Sing 'Where is Thumbkin? Where is Thumbkin?' and bring out one thumb, then the other.
  4. Sing 'Here I am, here I am' while wiggling each thumb.
  5. Sing 'How are you today, sir? Very well, I thank you' while bowing each thumb.
  6. Sing 'Run away, run away' and tuck each thumb back behind your back.
  7. Repeat for each finger — Pointer, Tall Man, Ring Man, Pinkie.
  8. Encourage your toddler to copy the movements, helping them uncurl each finger if needed.
  9. Celebrate each finger with a clap or cheer, then finish with a gentle hand massage, naming each finger one more time.

Parent tip

Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.

Parent and child sitting face-to-face laughing together in a warm shared moment

What success looks like

Back-and-forth between you — words, gestures, shared pretend. Connection is the real outcome here.

This activity uses classic fingerplay songs to help your toddler isolate and move individual fingers — a surprisingly tricky skill at this age. As you sing and wiggle each finger one at a time, your child practises the precise hand movements that later support holding a pencil, doing up buttons, and turning pages. The repetitive melody and simple lyrics make it easy for even pre-verbal toddlers to join in with the actions before the words follow.

Why it helps

Speech and Language UK highlights that songs help babies and toddlers learn new words and actions, and that face-to-face interaction during singing is essential — children learn by watching their caregiver's face, which is why sitting opposite your toddler matters here. Fingerplay songs also build phonemic awareness by helping children tune in to the smaller sounds within words. The individual finger movements develop the fine motor isolation needed for later pencil grip — the EYFS Development Matters framework links these early hand skills directly to the Physical Development strand.

Variations

  • Try Tommy Thumb or Finger Family for variety — same isolation concept with different melodies.
  • Draw tiny faces on your fingertips with a washable pen to bring each character to life.
  • For younger toddlers (12-15 months), focus only on thumbkin and pointer — two fingers is plenty.

Safety tips

  • Keep any drawn-on pen marks to the back of hands — avoid fingertips that go in mouths.
  • If your toddler gets frustrated with individual fingers, simplify to whole-hand opening and closing.
  • Ensure your toddler is seated comfortably to avoid toppling while concentrating on their hands.