Parent tip
Set out sock puppet before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

A sock puppet acts out the potty routine with silly voices and sound effects — making toileting feel fun, not frightening.
Set out sock puppet before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Back-and-forth between you — words, gestures, shared pretend. Connection is the real outcome here.
Slip a sock puppet onto your hand and announce that the puppet needs a wee. Walk the puppet through every step of the potty routine — pulling down trousers, sitting on the potty, waiting, wiping, flushing, washing hands — with exaggerated voices and silly commentary. Your toddler watches, giggles, and gradually joins in by directing the puppet or taking over steps. The puppet externalises the anxiety ('the puppet is nervous, not me') while the narrated sequence builds procedural memory. Over time, 'puppet does it, then I do it' becomes a natural bridge.
Puppet play provides emotional distance from anxiety-provoking situations. When a sock puppet makes mistakes or feels nervous about the potty, the child can comfort and correct it — processing their own fears from a position of competence. The EYFS Personal, Social and Emotional Development strand identifies role play as a key mechanism for building confidence around new routines. The narrated sequence also builds procedural memory, so the steps become familiar before the child attempts them.
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