Best for this moment
for calmer, lower-pressure moments, especially when you need an indoor option.
Two-Object Choice
At a glance: Hold up two objects and wait — let baby point, reach, or vocalise to choose one. A 5-minute, low-energy indoor activity for ages 12m–20m. No prep needed.
Hold a ball in one hand and a teddy in the other. Say each name clearly: 'Ball? Or teddy?' Then wait. Don't hand either one over. Give your baby 5 full seconds to respond in any way — a reach, a point, a sound, or even just looking at one longer. Name what they choose: 'Ball! You want the ball!' This teaches that communication has a purpose — their gesture or sound gets them what they want.
Parent tip
Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.
What success looks like
A good outcome is a few minutes of engaged play, some back-and-forth with you, and a small sign of progress in cognitive skills.
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Browse quick activitiesInstructions
- Choose two familiar objects (ball and teddy, cup and spoon)
- Hold one in each hand at baby's eye level
- Name them clearly: 'Ball?' (wiggle the ball) 'Or teddy?' (wiggle the teddy)
- WAIT — count to 5 silently in your head
- Watch for any response: a look, a reach, a point, a sound
- Give them the one they chose: 'Ball! You chose the ball!'
- Repeat with different pairs throughout the day
Why it helps
Choice-making is purposeful communication — baby learns that their gestures and sounds make things happen. The 5-second wait is critical: Speech and Language UK recommend pausing to give children time to think before they respond. When you name their choice, you're connecting their gesture to a word.
Variations
- Use during snack time: banana or apple?
- Use during dressing: red socks or blue socks?
- For older toddlers, hold up three objects instead of two.
Safety tips
- Use familiar objects baby already knows.
- Don't withhold if baby gets frustrated — just offer gently.
- Accept ANY form of communication: look, reach, point, sound.
When to pause and seek extra support
Stop if your child becomes distressed, unsafe, or consistently frustrated by the activity. If play, behaviour, or development worries keep showing up across settings, check in with a qualified professional.
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