Parent tip
Set out cookie cutters before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Use cookie cutters to turn sandwiches into shapes — shape learning your toddler can eat.
Set out cookie cutters before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Back-and-forth between you — words, gestures, shared pretend. Connection is the real outcome here.
Make a sandwich and let your toddler press cookie cutters into it to create stars, hearts, animals, or circles. This tiny act of involvement transforms a refused sandwich into a creation they own. NHS Best Start in Life and child nutrition guidance suggest that children who participate in food preparation are more likely to eat the result — and pressing a cutter into bread is a satisfying, achievable task even for young toddlers.
Food refusal is often about control, not taste. When toddlers actively shape their own food, they reclaim that control in a positive way. The pressing motion strengthens hand muscles and bilateral coordination (one hand holds, the other presses). Seeing familiar food in a new shape also provides the novelty that toddler brains crave without introducing a feared new food. The EYFS framework emphasises the importance of encouraging children to do things for themselves — it builds genuine confidence and real-world capability.
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