Parent tip
Set out rubber bands and tissue paper before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Layer coloured cellophane over torches to project colours onto dark walls, making the dark a canvas for creativity.
Set out rubber bands and tissue paper before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

A few quiet minutes together without pressure. If your child relaxes even slightly, that’s self-regulation building.
This activity transforms a dark room into an art studio where your child paints with light. By taping coloured cellophane or tissue paper over torch ends, toddlers project bold colours onto walls and ceilings — and discover that overlapping colours make new ones. The dark becomes essential, not threatening, because the colours only work when the lights are off. It's a gentle, child-led way to build positive associations with dimness.
The EYFS framework encourages creative construction activities that allow children to explore materials, solve problems and express their ideas. This activity addresses fear of the dark through a cognitive reappraisal framework — helping the child reinterpret the dark as a useful and exciting environment rather than a threatening one. The colour mixing introduces early scientific reasoning (cause and effect, prediction) while the creative freedom builds a sense of agency. When a child chooses to turn the lights off because the activity requires it, they are exercising voluntary approach behaviour toward the feared stimulus, which is the most powerful form of exposure therapy.
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