Parent tip
Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.

Turn a laundry basket into a basketball hoop and practise throwing soft items into it from increasing distances.
Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.

Flushed cheeks, big smiles, and a calmer child afterwards. If they want to do it again, you’ve found a winner.
This is the simplest possible version of 'throw at a target, not at your sister' — and it works brilliantly. A laundry basket on its side becomes a goal; tipped upright, it becomes a basketball hoop. Soft balls, rolled socks, and bean bags are the ammunition. The beauty is in the progression: start close (guaranteed success), move further back (increasing challenge), and celebrate every attempt. Over time, this builds the neural pathway for 'when I want to throw, I throw at the basket.'
NHS Best Start in Life recommends practising throwing, catching and kicking a ball as simple activities that teach coordination, balance and agility. This activity directly addresses the throwing impulse by providing a designated target and building a habit loop: urge to throw, throw at basket, rewarding feedback. Behaviourally, this is positive replacement — substituting an appropriate behaviour for an inappropriate one while meeting the same underlying need. The progressive distance challenge also develops spatial awareness and motor planning, as the child must adjust force and trajectory for each new position.
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