Best for this moment
when your toddler needs to move and burn energy, especially when you need something flexible indoors or outdoors.
Laundry Basket Ball Shoot
At a glance: Turn a laundry basket into a basketball hoop and practise throwing soft items into it from increasing distances. A 10-minute, high-energy both activity for ages 12m–3y. No prep needed.
This is the simplest possible version of 'throw at a target, not at your sister' — and it works brilliantly. A laundry basket on its side becomes a goal; tipped upright, it becomes a basketball hoop. Soft balls, rolled socks, and bean bags are the ammunition. The beauty is in the progression: start close (guaranteed success), move further back (increasing challenge), and celebrate every attempt. Over time, this builds the neural pathway for 'when I want to throw, I throw at the basket.'
Parent tip
Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.
What success looks like
A good outcome is a few minutes of engaged play, some back-and-forth with you, and a small sign of progress in body awareness.
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Meltdowns and tantrums
Meltdown
Start with calm regulation, then move to a simple activity that helps the moment settle.
Read the meltdown guideInstructions
- Place a laundry basket in the middle of the room or garden — upright for basketball-style, or on its side for rolling.
- Gather a pile of soft throwable items: rolled socks, small soft balls, stuffed animals, bean bags.
- Stand your child very close to the basket — almost touching it — for the first throw.
- Celebrate wildly when they get it in: 'IN! What a throw! You're a champion!'
- After three or four successful throws, move them one step back: 'Can you still get it in from here?'
- Keep moving back until they start to miss — then move forward again so they end on a success.
- For variety, try different items: 'Is it easier to throw the sock or the ball? Which one goes further?'
- End by tipping all the items out of the basket together and sorting them back to where they belong: 'Great aim today — our basket was very hungry!'
Why it helps
This activity directly addresses the throwing impulse by providing a designated target and building a habit loop: urge to throw, throw at basket, rewarding feedback. Behaviourally, this is positive replacement — substituting an appropriate behaviour for an inappropriate one while meeting the same underlying need. The progressive distance challenge also develops spatial awareness and motor planning, as the child must adjust force and trajectory for each new position.
Variations
- Use two baskets at different distances and assign point values — one point for the near basket, two for the far one.
- Play 'basketball hot potato' — throw the item to your child, they throw it in the basket. This adds a catching element.
- Time the throws with an egg timer: 'How many can you get in before the buzzer?'
Safety tips
- Use only soft, lightweight throwing items — nothing hard or heavy enough to hurt if it misses the basket.
- Ensure the area behind and around the basket is clear of breakable items.
- For early walkers who are still unsteady, let them sit on the floor to throw rather than standing.
When to pause and seek extra support
Stop if your child becomes distressed, unsafe, or consistently frustrated by the activity. If play, behaviour, or development worries keep showing up across settings, check in with a qualified professional.
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