TinyStepper
Child leaping between floor cushions in a living room obstacle course

Two-Step Instruction Game

Follow two-part instructions as a fun game — building the listening and sequencing skills nursery routines demand.

Activity details

2y–3y8 minsmediumbothNo prep

Instructions

Get ready
  • Start with a clear, simple two-step instruction: 'Pick up the teddy AND put it on the chair'
  • Emphasise the 'and' so your toddler hears that there are two parts
  1. Start with a clear, simple two-step instruction: 'Pick up the teddy AND put it on the chair'
  2. Emphasise the 'and' so your toddler hears that there are two parts
  3. If they only do the first step, gently remind: 'Great — and what was the second part?'
  4. Celebrate success: 'You remembered BOTH things — brilliant listening!'
  5. Make it sillier to keep engagement high: 'Clap your hands AND spin around!'
  6. Let your toddler give YOU two-step instructions — they love being in charge
  7. Gradually make instructions more complex: 'Get the red cup from the table AND bring it to Daddy'
  8. Play daily for a few minutes — repetition builds the working memory pathway

Parent tip

Start before you overthink it. No-prep activities work best when you begin while the moment is still recoverable.

Child smiling on a cushion after active play with a ball and scattered cushions nearby

What success looks like

Flushed cheeks, big smiles, and a calmer child afterwards. If they want to do it again, you’ve found a winner.

Turn following instructions into a game. Start simple: 'Pick up the ball AND put it in the basket.' Two actions, one sentence. Once your toddler manages that reliably, make it sillier: 'Touch your nose AND jump!' At nursery, instructions come thick and fast — 'Wash your hands and sit at the table,' 'Put your painting on the rack and get your coat.' A toddler who can hold two steps in mind and execute them in order navigates the nursery day with far less confusion and frustration.

Why it helps

Following multi-step instructions requires working memory — the ability to hold information in mind while acting on it. This executive function skill develops rapidly between two and four years and is critical for navigating nursery routines where instructions are rarely single-step. Turning it into a game removes the pressure and frustration that often accompanies real-life instruction-following, making it a positive skill-building experience rather than a compliance exercise. The EYFS Understanding the World goals encourage exactly this kind of investigation — letting children discover connections for themselves rather than being told.

Variations

  • Turn it into 'Simon Says' with two steps: 'Simon says touch your ears AND stamp your feet!'
  • Use it during real routines: 'Can you get your shoes AND your coat?' — transferring game skills to real life.
  • For older toddlers, try three-step instructions as the next challenge: 'Pick up the book, put it on the shelf, AND come sit down.'

Safety tips

  • Keep physical instructions safe — avoid anything involving climbing, running near furniture, or carrying breakable items.
  • If your toddler consistently struggles with two steps, drop back to one step and rebuild gradually — the goal is success, not failure.
  • Celebrate the attempt even if only one step is completed — partial success is still progress towards two-step processing.

Want to try another?

Mummy/Daddy Comes Back Game

Get weekly activity ideas for your toddler

One email a week with practical toddler activities, behaviour tips, and developmental insights. No spam, unsubscribe any time.