Parent tip
Set out mixing bowls and pom poms before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Use child-safe tweezers to transfer small objects between containers, building the precision grip needed for writing.
Set out mixing bowls and pom poms before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Intense focus, even briefly. Watch for the small ‘aha’ moment when they figure out how something works.
Set up two small bowls or egg-cup sections of an ice tray, one filled with pompoms, dried lentils, or small rubber erasers, the other empty. Hand your child a pair of child-safe plastic tweezers and challenge them to transfer the objects one by one. The pincer-style grip required exactly mirrors the tripod pencil grip. Start with larger pompoms and progress to smaller items as control improves. Add a counting or colour-sorting challenge to keep engagement high.
The DfE's EYFS guidance states that mixing, squeezing, pouring and spreading activities help develop fine motor and hand-eye coordination skills. Tweezers activities directly strengthen the intrinsic muscles of the hand and the web space between thumb and index finger, which are the anatomical structures most critical for a functional pencil grip (Case-Smith, 2010). The high level of concentration required also builds sustained attention and the hand-eye coordination that underpins fine motor tasks across art, self-care, and early writing. The self-correcting nature of the task — items either transfer or they don't — means children receive immediate, clear feedback without adult evaluation.
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