Parent tip
Set out pipe cleaners and rice or pasta before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Thread beads, pasta shapes, or cut straws onto lace to build fine motor control and concentration.
Set out pipe cleaners and rice or pasta before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Intense focus, even briefly. Watch for the small ‘aha’ moment when they figure out how something works.
Set out a collection of items to thread — large wooden beads, dried penne pasta, chunky buttons with wide holes, or cut sections of a drinking straw — alongside a shoelace with a stiffened tip or a pipe cleaner as a needle. Offer a pattern challenge (thread three red, then two yellow) or simply let your child create their own design. The slow, deliberate movements required for threading are a highly effective exercise for the small muscles of the hand that will later hold a pencil.
The DfE's EYFS guidance on physical development identifies threading and weaving as key activities that help children develop their pincer grip and learn to manipulate different materials. Threading requires the precise coordination of both hands working together (bilateral coordination) alongside the refined pincer grip that forms the foundation for pencil control (Pehoski, 2006). The slow pace and immediate visual feedback of each bead added makes it one of the most effective fine motor activities for pre-writing readiness. Introducing a pattern element simultaneously engages working memory and early mathematical thinking.
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