Parent tip
Set out mixing bowls and sponges before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Squeeze, dip, and squish sponges in a bowl of water — simple sensory water play that builds hand strength.
Tiny Steps
Set out mixing bowls and sponges before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Watch for focused exploration — fingers digging in, pouring back and forth, or sorting by feel. Even a few minutes of this builds concentration.
Give your toddler a few clean sponges and a bowl of water, and let them squeeze, dip, and squish to their heart’s content. The sensory feedback from squeezing a wet sponge is irresistible to small hands, and the squeezing action builds the hand strength needed for self-feeding and dressing. This works brilliantly as a bath-time extension or as a contained water activity with a towel underneath.
The DfE's EYFS guidance states that mixing, squeezing, pouring and spreading activities help develop fine motor and hand-eye coordination skills. Squeezing sponges builds intrinsic hand strength — the small muscles within the palm and fingers that are essential for gripping cutlery, doing up buttons, and eventually holding a pencil. The wet-dry sensory contrast and the visual feedback of water dripping out reinforces cause-and-effect understanding.