Parent tip
Set out pipe cleaners before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Turn a colander upside down and let your child push pipe cleaners through the holes — mesmerising, independent fine motor play.
Set out pipe cleaners before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Intense focus, even briefly. Watch for the small ‘aha’ moment when they figure out how something works.
Flip a kitchen colander upside down and hand your child a pile of pipe cleaners. They push them through the holes, pull them out, bend them, twist them, and create a colourful forest of wires. The holes provide natural guidance that makes this task self-correcting — children can see where to aim without adult direction. Set it up in 30 seconds and step back.
Threading requires bilateral coordination (one hand stabilises, the other threads), visual-motor integration (eyes guide the hand to the hole), and sustained focus — the three skills occupational therapists target for handwriting readiness. The colander provides a self-scaffolding task: the holes are visible and fixed, so the child can self-correct without adult help. This builds independence and resilience — 'I can do this by myself' — which research links to higher self-efficacy in later academic tasks. Development Matters emphasises that children learn these precise movements best through play that feels purposeful to them — not drills or worksheets.
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