Parent tip
Set out pavement chalk before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Draw colourful chalk circles on the pavement as 'stop spots' — your toddler dashes between them but must freeze on each spot and wait for your call before running to the next one.
Set out pavement chalk before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

Flushed cheeks, big smiles, and a calmer child afterwards. If they want to do it again, you’ve found a winner.
A high-energy outdoor game that practises the exact skill runners-away need most: stopping on command. Each chalk circle is a stop spot where the child must plant both feet and wait before being released to the next one. The game disguises recall practice as a thrilling dash-and-freeze challenge, building the habit of stopping when asked in a context that feels exciting rather than restrictive.
Birth to 5 Matters describes self-regulation as children's developing ability to regulate their emotions, thoughts and behaviour, and identifies inhibitory control — the ability to stop a physical action on command — as a core component. Children who run away in public are not being defiant; their prefrontal cortex is still developing the brake system needed to override the impulse to sprint. This game directly rehearses that brake in a high-motivation context where stopping earns celebration rather than frustration, building the neural pathway between hearing 'stop' and planting their feet. The EYFS Physical Development goals identify active play as fundamental — children who move confidently are better prepared for all types of learning.
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