TinyStepper

My Own Getting-Ready Chart

At a glance: Create a visual morning routine chart with pictures — your toddler checks off each step independently. A 10-minute, low-energy indoor activity for ages 2y–4y.

Built by a parent of toddlersBest for 2y-4y

Field-tested ideas shaped by direct parenting experience and advice from reputable sources, including NHS Best Start in Life and NSPCC child development research.

2y–4y10 minslow energyindoorsome mess

Together, draw or print pictures for each step of the morning routine: wake up, toilet, wash face, get dressed, eat breakfast, brush teeth, shoes on. Stick them on a chart at toddler height. Each morning, your toddler works through the chart, moving a marker (peg, magnet, or sticker) to each step as they complete it. The chart replaces verbal nagging with visual self-direction — they know what comes next without being told.

Best for this moment

for calmer, lower-pressure moments, especially when you need an indoor option.

Parent tip

Set out clothespegs and construction paper before inviting your toddler in so the first minute feels smooth.

What success looks like

A good outcome is a few minutes of engaged play, some back-and-forth with you, and a small sign of progress in cognitive skills.

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Instructions

Get ready
  • Sit together and list the morning routine steps — 5-7 is ideal
  • Draw or print a simple picture for each step
  1. Sit together and list the morning routine steps — 5-7 is ideal
  2. Draw or print a simple picture for each step
  3. Stick them in order on a large piece of card at your toddler's eye level
  4. Add a moveable marker: a clothespeg, a magnet, or a velcro arrow
  5. Walk through the chart together: 'First — wake up! Then — toilet!'
  6. Each morning, direct them to the chart: 'Check your chart — what's next?'
  7. They move the marker to each step as they complete it
  8. Celebrate finishing the chart: 'You did your whole morning — look at all those ticks!'

Why it helps

Visual schedules externalise the executive function demands of sequencing and self-monitoring, which are developing but unreliable in toddlers. The chart reduces the cognitive load of remembering 'what comes next' and eliminates the power dynamic of being told what to do. Research with typically developing children and those with additional needs consistently shows that visual schedules increase independence, reduce transition difficulties, and decrease parent-child conflict during routines.

Variations

  • Use photos of your toddler doing each step — they love seeing themselves.
  • Create a bedtime version for the evening routine.
  • Add a 'bonus' step at the end as a reward: 'All done? Bonus step — 5 minutes of play!'

Safety tips

  • Mount the chart securely so it cannot fall when your toddler interacts with it.
  • Ensure the marker (clothespeg, magnet) is not a choking hazard.
  • Keep the number of steps manageable — too many causes overwhelm rather than independence.

When to pause and seek extra support

Stop if your child becomes distressed, unsafe, or consistently frustrated by the activity. If play, behaviour, or development worries keep showing up across settings, check in with a qualified professional.

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